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Guide: Conflict resolution

Understanding conflict as an educational opportunity. Teaching self-control, empathy, and dialogue.

Key idea

Conflicts shouldn't be avoided, they should be used as learning opportunities.


0-3 years: Calming and starting to understand emotions

How to act:

  • Intervene quickly
  • Put words to the emotion
  • Validate what they feel

Phrases: "You're angry because you want the toy", "I understand you're angry, but we can't hit"

Tools: Hug and calm, distraction, change of activity.

Tip: First calm, then educate.


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